God doesn’t waste our pain and neither should we. He is working His purposes in and through your suffering. Take time to meditate on the wisdom and ways of God as He works out His perfect will through your suffering.
Christians can disagree on how to remember the key events in Christ’s ministry, or if holy days are appropriate at all. But whether we remember Christ’s birth, death, resurrection, ascension, and pouring out of the Spirit—that’s not an option.